Transform Your Life with Ryan Stoddart | Conscious Living Practices

MEET RYAN

Who I Am. Why I’m Here.

I wasn’t always this clear. I spent years doing what so many people do, waiting.

Waiting to take the leap.
Waiting to say the thing.
Waiting to do the thing.
Waiting to become the version of me I could already see, but couldn’t quite step into.

I knew what I wanted, but I kept putting it off. Not because I was lazy. But I didn’t yet know how to lead myself through the resistance.

That’s why this work isn’t theory for me. It’s personal. It’s lived. And it’s the reason I’m here. Over the last 15 years, I have done the work in real time. Not in perfect conditions. Not with everything figured out. But with reflection, intention, and small, consistent shifts, everything changed.

I have helped others do the same, not by telling them who to be, but by helping them return to themselves. Clarity does not come from having more information. It comes from knowing how to listen to the part of you that already knows.

This is my work. It’s my life. And if it resonates, it’s yours too.

My Approach

My Philosophy

There is no shortage of strategies, self-help books, and performance hacks. But lasting change, the kind that feels like you, comes from something deeper.

It stems from learning how to operate from clarity and intention, rather than autopilot. From energy, not just effort. From putting the right energy in the right places, when it matters most. It’s about conscious control. Not just what happens to you, but how you respond to it.

You don’t need to tear everything down. You need to realign, gently, honestly, and from within.

My approach combines evidence-based coaching tools with in-depth awareness work to help clients identify blind spots and create lasting change. This is not advice or therapy, it’s a structured process for self-mastery, designed to help you think differently, act intentionally, and perform at your best.

Why does this work? Because we all view the world through a personal lens, one shaped by past experiences, beliefs, and unconscious habits. Every thought, emotion, and reaction passes through that filter, creating a patterned way of responding to life. Over time, these automatic responses shape our results. Most times in ways we do not consciously choose.

Imagine what would happen if you could interrupt that pattern and make conscious choices in those moments, before the old response takes over. The ripple effect would reach every part of your life: how you show up at work, how you handle stress, how you care for your health, your relationships, and the energy you bring home at the end of the day.

I work with individuals who want more control over their time, their mindset, and their attitude. This way, you lead your life with clarity, confidence, and purpose. Together, we uncover the internal patterns that shape your results and build the awareness and discipline needed to create lasting transformation.

“Do not follow where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path and make a trail.”

― Ralph Waldo Emerson

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“I’m Always the One Holding Everything Together”

For the stretched-thin mom, manager, or do-it-all type who’s quietly burning out

Meet Morgan.

Organized. Reliable. Capable. She is the go-to person for everything.

At work, Morgan leads teams, hits deadlines, and keeps the wheels turning. At home, she is the one who remembers the doctor’s appointments, manages the finances, and ensures the people around her feel seen and supported.

People call Morgan a rock. And they are right. But being the rock is lonely. Exhausting. Heavy. mHer thought:

“Everyone’s leaning on me. But what if I’m barely standing?”

Morgan doesn’t complain. She keeps showing up, smiling, and holding it all together. But lately, she has noticed something: the tension in her shoulders never leaves. She feels resentful about little things that never used to bother her. And the thought of “What about me?” creeps in more often than she wants to admit.

She has pushed through for years, dismissing her own needs as selfish. Telling herself she will rest after. After the project. After the holiday. After things calm down. (Tick Tok) But things never calm down. Because Morgan keeps holding the world together, as if it were her job, and deep down, she's afraid: If I let go for even a second… will it all fall apart?

Eventually, something breaks, but it’s not the world. It’s her ability to fake it. And in that moment of quiet honesty, Morgan admits:

“I don’t want to fall apart. But I can’t keep disappearing either.”

That’s where coaching came in. Not as one more thing to manage, but as the first space where Morgan didn’t have to be “on.” She wasn't responsible for anyone but herself. And for the first time in years, she had permission to ask: What do I want? What do I need?

Through deep reflection, Morgan realized she was operating from a lifetime of self-neglect disguised as service. Coaching helped her unlearn the belief that taking care of herself meant abandoning others. She started small, five minutes of space here, one honest no there. And those small acts of self-respect began to rebuild a sense of wholeness.

Now, Morgan still shows up for others, but not at the cost of herself. She is setting boundaries. Reclaiming time. Reconnecting with joy. And perhaps most importantly, she remembered that strength doesn’t mean self-sacrifice. It means alignment.

She is no longer holding everything together. She holds herself first, and everything else flows from there.

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“I Don’t Even Know Who I Am Anymore”

The person emerging from burnout, loss, or major life change, seeking to rediscover themselves

Meet Jordan.

The past few years have been a blur, maybe it was a career that slowly became unsustainable, a divorce that fractured his sense of identity, a health scare that forced a reset, or simply too many years spent on autopilot.

He didn’t notice it at first. HE just kept going. But somewhere along the way, the things that used to feel like them, the hobbies, the laughter, the spark, went quiet. What’s left is a competent, functioning version of himself, but not a connected one.

“I’m living my life, but I don’t feel like I’m in it.”

Sam is stable enough. Bills are paid. Responsibilities handled. But inside, he feels hollow like a ghost in his own story. The roles he played, partner, parent, and employee, became masks, and now that some of those roles have shifted. He is not sure who’s underneath.

There’s a deep yearning he can’t quite name. A sense that something is waiting to emerge, but he doesn’t know how to reach it. Or if he is even allowed to.

“I’ve spent so long taking care of everything else… I forgot how to take care of myself.”

What Sam Wants

Sam wants reconnection. With himself.. With a future that feels chosen, not inherited, not expected, not default. He doesn’t want to go back to who he was; he wants to meet who they are now.

What He Tried

Self-help books that sound great but feel detached from real life
Starting over routines, journaling, new diets, gym memberships that fade after two weeks
Talking to friends, who care but don’t understand the internal fog
Pushing through, because that’s what he has always done

But pushing doesn’t work anymore. Because this isn’t about productivity, it’s about identity.

The Turning Point

It came one morning when Sam stood in front of the mirror, toothbrush in hand, and couldn’t shake the thought: “I don’t recognize the person looking back at me.”

That moment wasn’t a collapse. It was a crack, and through it came a question they hadn’t asked in years: “What do I need?”

The New Path

Coaching wasn’t about fixing Sam. It was about giving him a place to be, entirely and without judgment. A place where he could ask the questions that had been buried under years of responsibilities and resilience.

Week by week, he peeled back layers, not to go back, but to discover what was trying to emerge. He stopped defining himself by what he did, who he was to others, or what he survived.

He began to notice what made him feel present. What sparked a real “yes.” What drained him, and what restored him. And from that awareness, he began to rebuild, intentionally, gently, fully awake.

What Jordan Has Unlocked

A sense of identity rooted in self, not circumstance
Daily practices that nourish rather than numb
The ability to choose, not just cope
A life that reflects who they are now, not who they used to be

Sam didn’t find himself. He met himself for the first time in a long time.

Now, he moves through life with honesty and grace, no longer needing to rush toward answers, because he’s finally learned to live the questions.